ah, I hate gear people say RTFM. It shows they have enough time to waste to check a forum and reply, but not enough to help out. They need to STFU.
RTFM is originally a military term. Read The Field Manual. Where information that is vital to your survival is available for you, written from experience and extensive field testing. Not stupid ass "stereo instructions", like "most", electronic gear manuals. I bet half the people that use RTFM have never actually sat down and RTFM.
Personally, I delve into the gear until I have a question. Then I check the references. I will spend a lot more time with hardware than software though. I cannot tell you how many times store owners asked me to buy something or leave in the early days of pawn shops and tiny music instrument stores as I would just sit there working on how to use a piece of gear for hours. It really became an issue when I got access to some really cool gear while in Japan. The manual was obviously no help, I was just lucky I could change the languages inside the gear menus and the store owners did not seem to mind having an American showcasing their new gear. I was in heaven in 96 working at a Guitar Center in the Pro Audio and Keyboard dept. That is until I found out the ridiculous mark-up of most gear. After that I just spent time in other pro or home studios and building my own arrangement.
Anyhow, my advice. Get to know your own gear, since you already paid for it. But try to find an opportunity where you can use some stuff and get to understand how it works, before you have to buy it yourself. See if you can do a sit in at a local recording studio [they never seemed to mind some free help], or hang out in gear shops until they kick you out [tip-buy something the first time you go, then they will be more lenient] or hook up with other musicians and see how they worked out different techniques. Also you can get to know your local venue sound-person and pick up some tips, they like beer and love to talk about their job and how they made some shitty band end up sounding like Sabbath in their prime. It is really amazing how much of a good show can really be attributed to a proficient soundguy.
and avoid forums where they constantly tell you to RTFM :D
`michael